t a certain point, money stops being the problem. You’ll keep telling yourself it is... “If I just made more…” “If this month was more consistent…”, “If that client had said yes…”, but deep down you know with all your heart that it is not. It probably never was. So why does it keep coming back to the cash!

Here’s what I’ve seen time and time again: The moment you let go of the outcome… The moment you stop trying to force results… The moment you stop gripping so tightly to money, goals, timelines, or clients… Everything flows. Not because you stopped caring, but because you shifted from pressure to presence. This is the art of detachment. And it changes everything.

We’ve inherited silence, scarcity, dependency. We’ve been told not to talk about money. That wealth isn’t for us. That we should be grateful for what we have.

And yet as business owners (at the same time) we’re bombarded with a second narrative: That success means six figures. That if your business isn’t making money, it’s not valid. That income equals impact.

The words we use shape our world. Every belief you hold, every choice you make, and every result you experience can be traced back to the language running through your mind. And it starts far earlier and runs much deeper than you might think.

So many of us are battling with this silent pressure to choose who we are. To be either confident or humble. Empowered or uncertain. A visionary or a realist.

This expectation to fit into neat, digestible categories is everywhere

Even after leaving traditional careers or launching values-led businesses, many women still find themselves caught in the same loop: Working harder than ever. Measuring success by numbers alone. Feeling guilty when they rest. Questioning their worth in every quiet season.

You might even be fooled into thinking it’s like having a coach, therapist, or mentor in your pocket, always there to help and support you, and I wouldn't blame you if that is where your head is currently at…

We each run on mental programs, formed by memories, beliefs, and past experiences. NLP allows us to uncover, reframe, and rewire those internal patterns to support the version of you that wants to grow, lead, and receive.

It’s a bit like updating your internal software.